[tlhIngan Hol] how do we use the chenHa' meyrI'?

During the 2020 qepHom, we learned that one way to express "fail to climax" (sexually) is by the slang phrase {chenHa' meyrI'}. maj. But how do we use this phrase? If there's an alien who "fails to climax sexually" what do we say? Do we say {meyrI' chenHa'moHpu' nov}? ~ Dana'an DaH DIHIvnIS DIHIvlaHtaHvIS