{bej} is defined as "watch, observe".
Is it? I don't see anywhere that observe has been used to
gloss bej.
The proverb from TKWThe word observe is never used in TKW to refer to vision.
{bISutlhnISchugh jaghlI' mInDu' tIbej.}
If you must negotiate, watch your enemy's eyes.
is a hint to "observe" your opponent's eyes, but surely not stare at
them intently.
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