My problem with this matter has to do, with the way I understand the {vIta'pu'be'} and the {vIta'be'pu'}, if I "read" the {-be'} as if referring only to whatever directly precedes it.
I read the {vIta'pu'be'} as "it isn't completed the whatever it is that I did".
And I read the {vIta'be'pu'} as "it is completed my not doing it".
Lets write an example.
{QIn tetlhvam vImuvpu'be'}
I joined this list, but my joining isn't completed
{QIn tetlhvam vImuvbe'pu'}
I didn't join this list, and this (my not joining) is completed.
I'm not saying that I'm right, nor am I trying to prove something. I only write these examples to demonstrate how I understand this whole subject, and thus where my confusion is.
~ nI'ghma