On Thu, 21 Mar 2019 at 15:15, mayqel qunen'oS <mihkoun@gmail.com> wrote:
If I say be'nI'wIj, is it derogatory to me or to my sister ? Or to both ?

From TKD 3.3.4:
It is grammatically correct to use the regular possessive suffixes with nouns referring to beings capable of speech (as in {puqlIj} "your child"), but such constructions are considered derogatory; {joHwIj} for "my lord" borders on the taboo. Students of Klingon should bear this in mind.

--
De'vID